Not being around all day doesn't allow for a lot of time to take pictures so decided to make up for the past 2 weeks this weekend.
I have been back to work for 2 weeks now and Taylor on her new schedule. So far both are going well. I much prefer being home than commuting to NYC and putting in a days work. Taylor is doing well with the sitter and really enjoys school. She slipped into the new routine without a hitch. Now that she is with the kids at school full time vs part-time she is making friends with some of them. She even takes her nap with no argument.
Taylor's english is really coming along. I think being with the kids at school has really helped. She doesn't have to be prompted to repeat words, she just does it. She says thank you without reminding. Still needs some reminding on please. She is starting to answer questions especially the yes and no type, instead of shaking her head yes or no. Yesterday she handed me a potato chip and said "here you go." Heard it again today. She says "see you later" when I leave in the morning. She also says "don't know" with the appropriate shrug of the shoulders with the hands turned palms up....it is so cute. Sometimes she just does the jester without the words. She also started singing Frère Jacques and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. This started one morning about 2 weeks ago. I have been singing to them to her at night since we have been home. Nice to know she has been listening!!!! It is so cute to hear her sing. I tried video taping it earlier today and posted what I was able to get down below.
Taylor is left handed!!! Yippee!!!!!
She is still a champion eater. Will try just about anything. Sometimes I get it back in my hand but most of the time she eats it. She has grown about 2 inches since coming home and her weight is about the same.
For the first several weeks we were home she watched the Signing Times DVD's and picked up quite a few signs. Haven't had much time lately to watch them but Taylor hasn't forgotten what she learned and uses them regularly. She signs: eat, more, milk, water, doll, cookie, apple, banana and sometimes ball. She doesn't need to be prompted to use them.
Taylor's fear/dislike for dogs is a thing of the past. She is every excited when she sees dogs...doesn't matter if they are barking are not. She will now go up to small dogs and want to pet them. She is a little hesitant around bigger dogs especially those bigger than her but as long as they stay about 6 inches away she is fine. Last weekend when we were at my sister's, she actually fed Tamu who she calls Amu....it is really cute to hear her call out Amu.
I have a fish for a daughter. Who would have guessed it after it took me about 7 weeks to get her in a bath tub without having a melt down. Saturday we went to the Y and went swimming. They have a pool that goes from 0 ft. to 1 1/2 ft. and then 3 ft beyond the ropes. Put a vest on her and she was good to go. We were in the pool for over 1 hour and yes we were prunes by the time I was able to bribe her to get out. I signed her up for swimming lessons that start in a few weeks.
We are making improvements on the sleep front. The past few weeks she has slept through the night more often than not. During the week she usually wakes up on her own around 5:50am which is about 10 minutes before I would wake her up...that has happened only 2 times since starting back to work. Still trying to explain about sleeping in on Saturdays and Sundays...she isn't catching on to that yet. She had been doing well going down at night and falling asleep within 15 minutes (around 8:15). I still lie down with her or sometimes she wants me to sit on the bed next to her pillow. I don't mind this at all. The past few weeks it was taking anywhere from 30 minutes to 45 minutes for her to fall asleep. One night last week, it took 3 hours. I think I discovered that my girl doesn't react well to activity to make her tired before she goes to get ready for bed. She needs downtime before starting the bedtime routine. The night it took her 3 hours to go to sleep we had gone to the playground for 45 minutes before she went to bed. Have been giving her down time after I get home from work or after dinner on the weekend the past several days and it seems to be helping. Will have to see what the next few weeks bring.
These past 4 months have been an absolute joy. It feels like Taylor has always been here. I am amazed at how well she has adjusted to all the changes in her life. She is still full of personality and is very extroverted. She wakes up with a smile on and will always have one ready for you. Very easy to get her to go from tears to laughter in seconds. She does have a stubborn streak which I have seen many times. They said this about her in her referral documents. She gives the best hugs and kisses. I miss getting them when I am at work and can't wait to get home at the end of the day and start collecting for lost time. She brightens my life. Wouldn't have it anyother way.
I bought this floatation device for her to use at our pool or when we go to houses with pools. Here she is trying it on...it was a big hit.
Four years ago I began the journey to adopt my daughter from China. After an endless wait I found my girl.
Monday, May 31, 2010
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Back to Work on Monday
I have been home for the past 17 weeks...preparing for China, in China getting Taylor and at home with Taylor getting to know each other and helping her adjust and adapt to her new life here. It was wonderful and I enjoyed every minute of it and will miss the time we had together as I head back to work in NYC tomorrow. I think it will be a very hard adjustment for me more than Taylor. She will take to the changes just as well as she has taken to all the changes to her life these past few months. I feel comfortable with the arrangements I have for Taylor while I am at work and I know she will be well looked after and will have a good time....probably won't miss me at all :( I will miss her enormously. Now I have to shutdown and go up to bed as 5:15am will come sooner than I want it to.
FCC Barbeque
On Saturday the chapter of Families with Children from China that I belong to had a barbeque at Sandy Hook NJ. You couldn't have asked for a better day....sunny, warm, light breeze, hamburgers, hot dogs, chips and salad. Taylor and I had a great time. Taylor enjoyed meeting other kids, making new friends and playin with everyone.
Taylor and Olivia

Taylor and Olivia
From Mother's Day Weekend
For Mother's Day weekend Taylor and I loaded up the car and headed up to my sisters on Friday night for the weekend. It was a fun girls weekend and very relaxing.
We arrived at Auntie Linda's and Taylor was still awake and ready for the fun to begin. This is her shortly after we arrived.
After a busy Sunday morning, Taylor crawled up into Auntie Linda's lap and promptly fell asleep for her nap. No complaints from Auntie Linda.
We arrived at Auntie Linda's and Taylor was still awake and ready for the fun to begin. This is her shortly after we arrived.
Friday, May 7, 2010
A First and Hopefully a Last
Last night Taylor and I had a first and it better be our last. We got to ride in an ambulance to the emergency room of the hospital in nearby New Brunswick NJ. Yesterday Taylor had 2 shots - HIB and tetanus. She was fine the rest of the day....her normal happy self. Around 8:00pm as I was rocking her she felt a little warm but not alarmingly warm that would make me think fever. I gave her 1/2 teaspoon of Children's Tylenol as the doctor said I should do the last time she had shots. Two minutes later as I was back rocking her she had a seizure. Scared the living daylight out of me as I wasn't sure what was going on. Called 911 and they arrived very quickly. By this time the seizure had stopped and Taylor was breathing. She still wasn't responding to me. Quickly let everyone in and handed Taylor over to them. That was when I became calm...wasn't prior to that. She was awake and breathing normally and just watching everyone and probably wondering what was going on. We went to the hospital and the wonderful nurses and doctor there took such great care of us. She had a febrile seizure which is brought on by the spike in temperature which was brought on by the shots in particular the tetanus shot. After about 1 hour and a nice dose of Motrin we were discharged. My wonderful neighbors Patty and Robin came to pick us up. While we were waiting, the Taylor I have known and loved for the past 3 months came back....laughing, playing around, goofing around. She had Hi's for Patty and Robin when they came. She was entertaining in the car when she wasn't falling asleep and had good-byes and kisses when we got home. She was asleep within 1 minute of me putting her to bed. Slept through the night and was fine this morning.
We went to her doctor today to be checked out. We now have a plan of action the next time she needs shots and it will be one shot at a time. She won't have a full tetanus shot the next time she needs one, she will just get the PT part of it. (Can't remember what the doctor said the part was.) When she gets sick and gets a fever I have to be very diligent and watch and monitor her temperature and give tylenol or motrin as directed. This hopefully won't happen again but if it does I know what it is, what to expect and do and hopefully won't be so scared by it. Today she didn't go to school but will go back on Monday. She has been herself all day and hasn't had a fever.
I don't know what she remembers of last night but doesn't seem to have any lasting effects from it. The Sayreville first aid squad was fantastic as was the 911 operator. They got here so fast and were so good with Taylor. They even had a little stuffed toy for her in the ambulance. They were also very patient with a very scared mother.
We are heading up to Auntie Linda's tonight after dinner and a bath for the weekend. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend and a Happy Mother's Day to all.
We went to her doctor today to be checked out. We now have a plan of action the next time she needs shots and it will be one shot at a time. She won't have a full tetanus shot the next time she needs one, she will just get the PT part of it. (Can't remember what the doctor said the part was.) When she gets sick and gets a fever I have to be very diligent and watch and monitor her temperature and give tylenol or motrin as directed. This hopefully won't happen again but if it does I know what it is, what to expect and do and hopefully won't be so scared by it. Today she didn't go to school but will go back on Monday. She has been herself all day and hasn't had a fever.
I don't know what she remembers of last night but doesn't seem to have any lasting effects from it. The Sayreville first aid squad was fantastic as was the 911 operator. They got here so fast and were so good with Taylor. They even had a little stuffed toy for her in the ambulance. They were also very patient with a very scared mother.
We are heading up to Auntie Linda's tonight after dinner and a bath for the weekend. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend and a Happy Mother's Day to all.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Saturday Morning Photo Shoot
I thought Taylor looked so cute Saturday in her Disney Princess shirt and denim shorts and her hair done up in 2 ponytails that I just had to take pictures. She sat on the stairs for me and then started make funny faces to herself in the mirror behind me. My girl LOVES to look at herself in the mirror. She says hi to herself and makes funny faces and cracks herself up. It is very cute to watch.

New Sleeping Bag
This and That from Florida
Here are some odds and ends pictures from our trip to Florida.
How much do I weigh? Still 36 lbs.
Riding her Go Green tricycle from Grandma. "I prefer backwards!!"
See I can pedal. Can you stear yet? Nope.


It is so much more fun to wear others shoes and carry others bags than my own.

Taylor's Beauty Salon. Hair stylist is in.

My mom has a pond out her back window and gets all kind of birds there along with ducks and flying fish. Taylor loved standing on her stool and looking out to see what she could see.
How much do I weigh? Still 36 lbs.
Riding her Go Green tricycle from Grandma. "I prefer backwards!!"It is so much more fun to wear others shoes and carry others bags than my own.
Taylor's Beauty Salon. Hair stylist is in.

My mom has a pond out her back window and gets all kind of birds there along with ducks and flying fish. Taylor loved standing on her stool and looking out to see what she could see.
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